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Expected and unexpected grief triggers

Posted on May 30, 2019 by Larissa

Dear Mum, I was just thinking back to this day last year when three of your girlfriends arrived at your house with morning tea, announcing that they hadn’t missed one of your birthdays yet.  I took candid photos of you all laughing so hard that each of you had to pull a tissue from your … Continue reading Expected and unexpected grief triggers

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Another first down

Posted on May 13, 2019May 13, 2019 by Larissa

Tough day at the office. Really tough. Mother’s Day started beautifully. I lay in bed listening to pancakes being made in the kitchen. Elsie and Maeve had brought in a colourful menu full of options and I ticked pancakes because kids like pancakes and I waited in bed because kids like serving breakfast in bed … Continue reading Another first down

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Perhaps it was a sign

Posted on March 4, 2019 by Larissa

We teach our kids not to wipe their runny noses on their sleeves. But if you’re at the cemetery visiting your mum’s grave to see the headstone for the first time and you don’t have a tissue, then it’s permitted. Would it be ‘her’ headstone instead of ‘the’ headstone? I would rather we were debating … Continue reading Perhaps it was a sign

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I’m out walking on a back road - the same road that you wish to cross. #canwebeclearonwhogivesway #andnochangingyourmind #doigoinfrontofyouorbehind Forget it. {Runs across in front squealing and looking behind for next 100m} #thebearandthewhale #farmlife
Happy to spend the day with these co-workers #donatinghay #farmlife #thebearandthewhale
Both mine. #reallyhardtomakeadecisionwhentheythrowoneball #wanttofetchbutcantleavetheotherball #takingtheotheronewithmeisanoption #butveryhardifnotimpossibletocarrytwoatonce #firstworlddogproblems #thebearandthewhale
Peace and love ✌️from ‘Live in the Barn’ at Woodstock. Thanks to my Nana for my glasses, Mum for Elsie’s dress and Maeve’s shoes (#brokenankleforsure), and Dad for any or all of Anthony’s outfit. #50yearssincewoodstock #wishwedknown #wouldhavedressedup #thebearandthewhale
Chasing these two around in circles #barelyanytimeforthesocials #isaidbarely #harvest #farmlife #barleyharvest #thebearandthewhale
Employee benefits #harvest2019 #farmlife #thebearandthewhale

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